February 7, 2013

Adam and Steve

    For some reason, one of the biggest arguments in the ever-growing "Gay Debate" is that the Bible says "Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve," ultimately saying that God originally created man to like woman and vice versa, so that's the way it should be today. Now you could possibly argue that I'm looking into this argument too literally, or that this argument is actually referring to the Bible as a whole condemning any atypical, non-heterosexual relationship. And though I hope to discuss all major Bible passages saying that eventually, for now I'll just take on the argument as I see it plainly. However, if you are particularly interested in that right now, I definitely recommend watching this video, as it remains one of my greatest inspirations today.
     But all that being said, let's dive right in, for there are quite a few points to be made.
     The first point to be made is that Eve was made from Adam and for Adam to be his ideal partner. It was God's will that they each be made to be together forever. The main reason (other than companionship and possibly God just being nice) being that they were destined to someday repopulate the earth. And obviously, this is something that could only be done by a couple made of a man and a woman.
     So of course Adam and Eve had to be straight; if they were meant to have so many children, they would have to at least like each other. That only makes sense. However, to follow the story of Adam and Eve today would mean that the main purpose of any couple should only ever be to reproduce and populate the earth. And based on that argument, there is no worth or purpose in infertile couples, or even in living as a single person.  Not to mention that argument would undermine the lives of all asexual or eternally celibate people, or anyone unwilling or unfit to bear and raise children. Because if the first people were born to reproduce and be married, then all people should. However, this is obviously not what the Church teaches by any means, and it's not a moral belief many people have today.
     You could still that the point wasn't them having children, but them being romantic at all. That the point was that if a man should want a relationship, it should only be with a woman. The problem with this is that it only works because Eve was created with the sole intention of being Adam's one perfect companion. They were created to be perfectly suitable for one another. But this is the same for any gay person. God created them uniquely to like someone of the same gender because that's who they were meant to be with.
     Granted, there are exceptions with this, like if a straight girl fell in love with another girl, or a gay man falling for a girl, or anything of the sort. Just to clear this up before anyone misunderstands. The point is, if God created a soul mate (if you believe that) for someone, then it was his intention that you be with them. Regardless of gender. Adam and Eve was by no means of love story, but if you want so badly to treat it like one, this is the point to be followed: God makes people companions. Whether it be platonic or romantic, humans are a social being and that's what God wanted. We should not shun love where we find it, no matter the form. And we should never deny anyone the love that they have found, even if it isn't a love just like what you or anyone else has experienced.
    But all of that serious argument aside, the story of Adam and Eve isn't a true one anyways. The Bible is so figurative that a lot of it isn't actually real. This could easily have been made up by someone the day before the first edition of the Bible was written up. Maybe they were a hetero-elitist who thought of course the first humans were straight. But God is God. He can do whatever he wants. Who's  to say the first humans weren't both girls. Maybe God gave one the divine power to impregnate the other, and then she gave birth to a son and God just said "well that was a lot of work. On the next batch of generations, let the male kids do it. Save me time to do other God things." The thing is, you weren't actually there. So stop bringing Alicia and Eve into it.